Wanna be BFF (Best Friends Forever) with someone, but don’t know how to keep it? This will help!
- Keep your friend’s secrets; don’t tell a soul, not even your stuffed animals!
- Take turns playing at each other’s house. Same with sleepovers.
- Help him/her out with everything you can!
- Try to understand each other characters, it is worth!
- Every once in a while, do what he/she wants to do! You can have a Friendship Day every year, and alternate: one year you do what he/she wants to do, the next what you want to do.
- Don’t be too controlling and bossy! Don’t tell him/her who he/she can and can’t be friends with, and try to give him/her space to do his/her own thing. For example, if you really want to go to the restaurant with him/her, but he/she already has something planned, let him/her do his/her thing for a while!
- Tell that person that he is your BFF.
- Be yourself, but allow him to be himself also.
- Don’t hide anything from each other especially topics that concern your BFF.
- Listen to his problems, and try to give the best advice you can!
TIPS!
- Do whatever it cost to keep this relation, never give up!
- Respect your best friend, especially in front of the others, because if you say something wrong it will hurt him more than the others will do.
- Don’t open topics that might bother him/her but be smart to help in this.
WARNINGS!
- You might end up thinking way too hard and result in losing sleep thinking about it, but hey, those hours can be regained.
- ‘Friends with benefits’ sounds great but you and your friend are likely to get hurt in the long run.
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